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Two truths & a lie, Wedding Edition

For those on my email list, today’s topic was wedding superstition trivia, in the form of two truths and a lie.

Here is the story behind each statement.

A - Saturday weddings are bad luck. TRUE

Traditionally, Saturdays have been the go-to choice for weddings. However, some believe in exploring alternative dates!

According to an old Celtic rhyme, different weekdays hold varying degrees of luck for weddings: "Monday for wealth, Tuesday for health, Wednesday the best day of all, Thursday for losses, Friday for crosses, and Saturday no luck at all." While this rhyme adds a touch of folklore, ultimately, the best day for your wedding is the one that works best for you and your partner!

Weekday weddings can offer several advantages:

  • Greater Availability: Venues and vendors often have more open slots on weekdays, making it easier to secure your dream team and location.

  • Unique Atmosphere: Weekday weddings can create a more intimate and relaxed atmosphere, allowing for a focus on celebrating with loved ones.

  • Cost Savings: Some venues may offer lower rates for weekday weddings compared to Saturdays, allowing you to potentially allocate more resources to other aspects of your celebration.

So, whether you're drawn to tradition or open to exploring new possibilities, remember – the most important thing is to choose a date that sets the perfect stage for your happily ever after!

B -Rain on your wedding day is good luck. TRUE

While rain on your wedding day might cause a moment of worry, many cultures see it as a sign of good fortune! Dark clouds and raindrops can symbolize not just a cleansing wash, but also abundance – a perfect theme for your new beginning as a married couple. I’ve always been told this has it’s roots in fertility gods, so I guess that could be good or bad luck, depending on your perspective.

Instead of stressing about the weather, embrace the symbolism and let it enhance your special day. As a bonus, it could even make for some beautiful and unique wedding photos.

C - A veil's purpose is to hide the bride from the groom before he sees her at the altar. FALSE

Some might think that the veil has its roots in arranged marriages, and it was to hide the bride from the groom so he didn’t run away. Others think that it had to do with keeping bugs away. But the tradition goes back, much further. In ancient Greece and Rome, brides wore veils not just for fashion, but for protection. They believed a veil shielded the bride from curses and spells cast by jealous spirits who might envy her happiness. By concealing her face, the veil supposedly hid her from these malevolent forces.

So now you know the truths behind these wedding superstitions. Be sure to join my email list for more fun :)

What’s your favorite wedding superstition? Reply in the comments.